Archive | March, 2012

Daily Smiley: Dancing On My Own

31 Mar

Smiley:  You forgot to send out the Daily Smiley yesterday.  ”I was out dancing!  What happened to your mental alarm?  I guess I hit the snooze!!!”

Today’s Daily Smiley reminds us that dancing is a positive force.  Dancing encourages love of others and love of self.  Studies show that dancing increases one’s capacity to do good for others by 12.8%.  I just made that up.  But it might be true. Why?  Because when you dance you maximize the energy you send out to rest of the world.  Now, I love dancing with other people.   There’s nothing like a whole room of people bouncing up and down to Michael Jackson or Rihanna or M83.   But, my favorite time to dance is solo.  I like to dance by myself.  In my room, on a run (seriously- try this next time you’re running), or just out and about in the sunshine.  When you dance by yourself it’s like the world shakes and anything is possibile!

So, enjoy your weekend, and no matter what your favorite music is or where you are or what you are doing, JUST DANCE.

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Daily Smiley: Passion > Fear

29 Mar

My friend Burcu Bozkurt is today’s Daily Smiley HERO.  Why?  Because she overcame fear, which is no easy feat.  Burcu moved from Istanbul, Turkey to the United States at the age of eight, and now she is a senior at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where she is double majoring in global studies and public health.  She is passionate about public health, maternal and child health, and human rights, and is a StartingBloc Social Innovation Fellow. Yesterday, she turned down the only job offer she’s ever had.  Her rationale:

…would it have meant stability over the summer and post-graduation?  Likely.
…would it have meant getting paid competitively? Yes.
…would I have been bored out of my mind? Yes.
…would I have been surrounded by individuals who ignite my fire, challenge me and/or inspire me? Not likely.
…would it be a job I look forward to every morning because of its mission/impact on the world? Most definitely not.
…am I scared? YES.
but liberated?  HELL YES.  I love the feeling that comes with the possibility of making moves for myself and the world.

It is a bold move for anyone to turn down a job offer, especially in a dismal job market, and especially coming right out of college.  Jobs do not come easily to 30 or 40 year-olds, let alone 21 year-olds.  But Burcu chose passion over fear.  She chose inspiration, motivation, and wanting to make a social impact every day.  A job to her is more than just a paycheck and checking the “I have a job” box.  Let’s all remember to fight the fear that comes with making any big decision in life.  If we listen to our heart and our passions within, they will lead us in the right direction, and leave fear withering in the distance.   Once we do, the possibility and the potential we create for ourselves and those around us is endless.

Burcu at the StartingBloc Institute for Social Innovation in 2012. Photo by Kwirious Photography.

For more inspiration, go to Burcu’s blog about working in community health in Bangladesh from her summer internship in 2011.

The Daily Smiley: Dream Big, Dream Beautiful

28 Mar

This is the first “Daily Smiley”!  MAMACITA!  There’s no telling what might happen now.  Every day I will blog a tiny snippet of passion, inspiration, or reflection through which to begin (or end) the day.  Inspired by the Daily Om, the Daily Smiley.  Sometimes it will be a quote, sometimes a statistic or an idea to ponder, sometimes words of joy, sometimes things that will make us pause and meditate.  The Daily Smiley is something to have with your morning coffee.  It says WAKE UP, you are ALIVE!  Here is the inaugural:

DREAM BIG, DREAM BEAUTIFUL

“If your dreams do not scare you, they are not big enough.”  

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”  -Eleanor Roosevelt

Photo by Smiley 3/23/12

Free Minds: Empowering Young Writers in Prison

25 Mar

Recently, I volunteered with the Free Minds Book Club & Writing Workshop, a DC-based nonprofit organization that introduces teenage boys at the DC Jail and in federal prison to the life-changing power of books and creative writing.  Free Minds inspires these young people to see their potential by organizing book clubs at the DC Jail where 16 and 17 year-olds discuss literature and express themselves through creative writing, pairing youth with a volunteer writing mentor from the community.  Free Minds mentors these 16 and 17 year-olds (who have been tried and incarcerated as adults) throughout their incarceration and beyond release, providing reentry support, life skills workshops, and education referrals for life after prison.

At the Free Minds “Write Night” we provided comments and positive feedback on poems that these youth had written.  Free Minds then takes the volunteers’ comments and gives them to the authors behind bars– the positive feedback is meant to help the authors find their voices as writers and to continue writing.  We all know it’s gratifying to have someone commend your writing (or like your Facebook status), but can you imagine the transformative power in having someone comment on your words when you are in prison?  Knowing that someone out there is actually listening, that someone is listening to you, must be truly validating and empowering.

One talented young poet had written this line in his poem, which particularly grabbed me:  “In what adult mind frame is it justified to send juveniles to an adult prison? That’s what I’m trying to see.”  We should all ask ourselves the same question.  Lawyer and equal justice advocate Bryan Stevenson, in an inspiring TED talk about injustice in America, notes that the United States is the only country in the world where we sentence 13 year-olds to die in prison, and have life imprisonment without parole for kids.  How can we even begin to talk about justice when over 2200 juveniles have been sentenced to life without parole?

Many of the poems I read at Write Night featured poignant reflections on the history of racial injustice in America, and the devastating impact of prison on the black community.  In a recent New Yorker article on mass incarceration in AmericaAdam Gopnik notes that blacks are now incarcerated seven times as often as whites, and that there are more black men under the control of the criminal justice system that were in slavery in 1850. “The system of mass incarceration works to trap African Americans in a virtual (and literal) cage,” the legal scholar Michelle Alexander writes. “Young black men pass quickly from a period of police harassment into a period of “formal control” (i.e., actual imprisonment) and then are doomed for life to a system of “invisible control.”

As their readers on the outside, we need to not only listen to the voices of incarcerated youth, but take action so that young people are not tried and incarcerated as adults.   Our for-profit prison system, supported by racially biased stop-and-frisk policing and sentencing disparities, locks up too many young people of color (often for minor offenses like marijuana possession), inhibiting their ability to get a job or education or vote or receive social services upon release, thus perpetuating a system of racial control that Alexander likens to slavery.  I’ll close with one of the poems published in the Free Minds anthology; to read inspiring poems by incarcerated youth, post comments that will be given to the authors in jail, or learn more about volunteer opportunities, check out the Free Minds blog.

Confined as a Youth

by Antwon

When you think about childhood

You ‘posed to be able to smile

But never in my life was I taught how

I was always around anger that led to pain

I was always confined

At least that’s how it felt to my brain

The streets not only took me,  but they took my mother too

Confined as a youth, so tell me what I ‘posed to do?

Some people say they love the streets because the game is all they know

I will never label myself until I give myself time to grow

And sometimes I wonder why do it always have to be me?

Then I hear my great grandma’s voice saying

“You wasn’t the only one that wasn’t free”

It’s crazy how people put lies in our heads

Trying to get to believe this is who we are

When, for real, every living thing was meant to be a star

I hope one day we will see there’s no limit to what we all can do

But until that day comes, I’m here on earth, “confined as a youth”

The Year of Love

24 Mar

Welcome to my blog!  2012 is officially The Year of Love, deemed as such by my dear friend Andreas on New Year’s Eve.  He actually consecrated 2011 as the Year of Love back on 12/31/10 over pints of Six Point Sweet Action at The Brooklyn Inn.  But 2011 was filled with its share of complications, so we’re going with 2012 as THE ACTUAL YEAR OF LOVE.  So there’s hope for us all yet!